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[2eclipse]

so here is the question plaguing my head today: if your lover murdered someone, could you still stay with them? would it matter why they did it? what reasons could you/couldn't you cope with?

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[mirage897.livejournal.com]

From dictionary.com

MURDER

The unlawful killing of one human by another, especially with premeditated malice.

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I guess the malice thing would be a problem for me. If it was 2nd degree murder (heat of the momemnt) I might be able to live with them. It would indeed matter to me why they did it. I guess the more premeditated and malicious the more I could not stand to be with that person.

More to the point....

Is Ross planning to cap or off someone? ;)

(Sorry I could not resist that last jibe)

[2eclipse.livejournal.com]

teehee. as far as i know, ross is not planning on hurting anyone, much less killing them. this is actually a response to rojir's comment about if he was cheated on as much as anything else.
however. i would STRONGLY prefer you to go with whatever YOU consider murder, rather than a dictionary def. for the purposes of this question. unless they are the same.

[mirage897.livejournal.com]

God, I hope I never seriously have to make that definition or decision based on something like this

[2eclipse.livejournal.com]

i hope you never have to. for me, anydeath that is not an accident is murder. that whole pacifism thing. and i would have big problems. but i'm not sure that i would leave someone even for intentional murder. it would depend on how they felt about what they had done.