Rant

there is very little i hate more than fighting with people i love
but man did i get into a good one with a friend today.
because i offered information a few days ago without asking if she wanted it.
and because i said something flippant impulsively about a girl i don't like that involved one of her ex boyfriends today(when she was asking why i don't like her).
it was impulsive and i apologized.
but i am not mean, nasty or cruel. i just don't think like her.
and i DO NOT accept being brow beaten for 20 minutes because it shocked her or hurt her unintentionally.
as to "ask before you help me"? that i simply do not accept and am not interested in agreeing to.
it might be the wrong thing, and i will not do it again if it is wrong. but don't expect me to not help.
dammit.
not trying to help when i have a chance to is not being a good friend and i won't agree to it.