the darkness has not overcome it

I don't think I will put this on my journal, but here are my answers:
♥ What are your middle names?
Nicole, Jacob.

♥ How long have you been together?
Six years as of this May 25.

♥ How long did you know each other before you started dating?
Either two months or a year and a half. There was some distance between our first date and when we started our relationship.

♥ Who asked who out?
He asked. Blushing, stammering, about to pass out from fear, he asked.

♥ How old are each of you?
I'm 25 and he just turned 30.

♥ Whose siblings do/ did you see the most?
His. They live here in E'ville, but all mine are farther away.

♥ Do you have any children together?
No, and no plans to either.

♥ What about pets?
2 cats: Bishi and Peggy, 1 snake: Hastur, and 1 Beta: Comrade Fish.

♥ Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
Insecurity?

♥ Did you go to the same school?
No.

♥ Are you from the same home town?
No.

♥ Who is the smartest?
I got the social smarts, he got the math and science stuff, and we're about even on common sense, but in different areas. Probably the most stereotypical part of our relationship roles.

♥ Who is the most sensitive?
I'd say he is, but he might disagree.

♥ Where do you eat out most as a couple?
Hard to say. If breakfast counts, probably McDonalds, but if we're talking about restaurants, we're all over the place.

♥ Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple
Las Vegas.

♥ Who has the worst temper?
Neither of us has a temper practically at all. We're two of the most conflict avoidant people in the world. When one or both of us does get mad, it usually devolves to tearful apologies within minutes.

♥ Who does the cooking?
On the rare occasions that cooking happens, probably me. Peter tries, but he's only mastered a few dishes so far.

♥ Who is more social?
Me.

♥ Who is the neat Freak?
Neither, we're both fairly cluttery.

♥ Who is the more stubborn?
Eh, I'd say I'm one of the least stubborn people in the world, except for him. I stop right short of being a doormat, and sometimes he doesn't.

♥ Who hogs the bed?
Neither. We like to cuddle.

♥ Who wakes up earlier?
We almost always get up at the same time. We have the same schedule.

♥ Where was your first date?
We went to see our University's production of Jekyll and Hyde, the musical. During the cabaret scenes he looked up at the lighting fixtures.

♥ Who has the bigger family?
I do.

♥ Do you get flowers often?
No, I don't like cut flowers.

♥ How do you spend the holidays?
Eh, working about half the time, but we try to make an effort to visit all the sets of parents.

♥ Who is more jealous?
Him.

♥ How long did it take to get serious?
A while. I have commitment issues. On any given day I might say it isn't, even though we're buying a house together.

♥ Who eats more?
About the same I think.

♥ Who does/ did the laundry?
We each do our own.

♥ Who’s better with the computer?
I'm probably a little better with software, he's definitely better with hardware.

♥ Who drives when you are together?
Usually me. He has trouble with directions.

♥ Who has the craziest exes?
That's easy. I'm the only one of us who really has any exes.

♥ Who sings better?
I do.

♥ Who picks where you go to dinner?
Usually me, but I try to get him to decide sometimes.

♥ Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?
We're both in a rush to apologize when we think we're wrong.

♥ Who wears the pants in the relationship?
Me, but I don't like it.

♥ Who has more tattoos?
Me. He doesn't have any yet.

♥ Who eats more sweets?
Neither of us is particularly fond of them. We're more into salty snacks.

♥ Who cries more?
I do.