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Jan. 23rd, 2008 04:53 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
i hate stupid shit.
and i hate it when people who need something from ross call me instead.
and ross? he also hates it when people who want something from him call me instead.
ross is not a big hairy, scary monster. he does not eat little children for breakfast. he is a nice man who is perfectly civil to people who call him on the phone. really. i've heard him talking to them. he's very nice unless you're the phone company and you've goofed up his bill.
you know what i hate worse than that?
people who make me feel guilty for not wanting to play go-between
or worse, people who put our friendship on the line over my not wanting to be a go-between.
so really. unless it is for a surprise party, you have already called his phone and not gotten him, or you really want to piss me off and can't think of something better....call ross when you need to talk to ross. call me when you want to talk to me.
and i hate it when people who need something from ross call me instead.
and ross? he also hates it when people who want something from him call me instead.
ross is not a big hairy, scary monster. he does not eat little children for breakfast. he is a nice man who is perfectly civil to people who call him on the phone. really. i've heard him talking to them. he's very nice unless you're the phone company and you've goofed up his bill.
you know what i hate worse than that?
people who make me feel guilty for not wanting to play go-between
or worse, people who put our friendship on the line over my not wanting to be a go-between.
so really. unless it is for a surprise party, you have already called his phone and not gotten him, or you really want to piss me off and can't think of something better....call ross when you need to talk to ross. call me when you want to talk to me.
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Date: 2008-01-24 12:12 am (UTC);D
hehehehe.
**HUGS**
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Date: 2008-01-24 02:51 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-01-24 12:14 am (UTC)Second of all - you have every right to be pissed! I HATE being go-between in any situation. It generally causes more frustration and confusion. Hope people lay off you now!
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Date: 2008-01-24 03:41 pm (UTC)good to hear from you. i saw the lovely pictures of you and chris and morgan. woot! are you feeling at all stir crazy yet? ross and i are stupid busy the next few weekends, but i will see if i can tie him down to one place long enought to figure out a weekend to come visit.
smooches
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Date: 2008-01-24 12:23 am (UTC)But it is stupid. And it kind of sucks to get a phone call, and have them want to talk to someone else. Hopefully this gets the message across.
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Date: 2008-01-24 02:53 pm (UTC)the person in question is not on lj....i just needed to vent...which means we will still need to have an in-person conversation about this. ugh.
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Date: 2008-01-24 01:00 am (UTC)Muah ha ha ha!!!!
*hides*
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Date: 2008-01-24 02:54 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2008-01-24 02:51 am (UTC)As if by virtue of being married to someone, you can transmit information to them telepathically and any message received by you will automatically transfer to him. As we all know, that telepathy thing does not arrive with the exchange of rings!
Durh.
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Date: 2008-01-24 03:39 pm (UTC)yes that happens all the time. certain particular friends - not even the one that made me mad - assume that anything said to ross gets said to me and vice versa. let me tell you it doesn't happen. she says she understands that....but she keeps doing it.
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Date: 2008-01-24 03:56 pm (UTC)(I don't think that's very realistic though, not even for the closest of couples!)
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Date: 2008-01-25 09:56 am (UTC)I hate that sort of scenario, too.
*empathizes*