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[2eclipse]

i hate stupid shit.
and i hate it when people who need something from ross call me instead.
and ross? he also hates it when people who want something from him call me instead.
ross is not a big hairy, scary monster. he does not eat little children for breakfast. he is a nice man who is perfectly civil to people who call him on the phone. really. i've heard him talking to them. he's very nice unless you're the phone company and you've goofed up his bill.

you know what i hate worse than that?
people who make me feel guilty for not wanting to play go-between
or worse, people who put our friendship on the line over my not wanting to be a go-between.

so really. unless it is for a surprise party, you have already called his phone and not gotten him, or you really want to piss me off and can't think of something better....call ross when you need to talk to ross. call me when you want to talk to me.

Comments

[journeyintoday.livejournal.com]

Yah...Could you please tell Ross I'll do that from now on?

;D

hehehehe.

**HUGS**

[2eclipse.livejournal.com]

*throws a shoe at you*

[eltanin.livejournal.com]

First of all- hi! Been a while since we've crossed paths :) When we come to town, we'll have to try getting together (or should you and Ross ever feel like venturing out, the welcome mat is always out!).

Second of all - you have every right to be pissed! I HATE being go-between in any situation. It generally causes more frustration and confusion. Hope people lay off you now!

[2eclipse.livejournal.com]

i doubt it. i will have to have a conversation with the person in question and i'm not looking forward to it.
good to hear from you. i saw the lovely pictures of you and chris and morgan. woot! are you feeling at all stir crazy yet? ross and i are stupid busy the next few weekends, but i will see if i can tie him down to one place long enought to figure out a weekend to come visit.
smooches

[kurosawa2005.livejournal.com]

Only reason I would call you to talk to Ross would be because I don't have his phone number. Which means I also can't call Ross to talk to you, I suppose.

But it is stupid. And it kind of sucks to get a phone call, and have them want to talk to someone else. Hopefully this gets the message across.

[2eclipse.livejournal.com]

the main thing that bothers me is when it is business. i don't mind if they can't get ahold of ross and call me to see if i know where he is - or to get a phone number. that's fine...but i don't want to be involved in ross's computer tinkering and things like that.
the person in question is not on lj....i just needed to vent...which means we will still need to have an in-person conversation about this. ugh.

[silvertongue1.livejournal.com]

Note to self: find reasons to call Ross, then call Heather even though I have his cell#.
Muah ha ha ha!!!!
*hides*

[2eclipse.livejournal.com]

*throws other shoe at you*

[spiralshell.livejournal.com]

It's definitely annoying when people do that.
As if by virtue of being married to someone, you can transmit information to them telepathically and any message received by you will automatically transfer to him. As we all know, that telepathy thing does not arrive with the exchange of rings!
Durh.

[2eclipse.livejournal.com]

ugh!
yes that happens all the time. certain particular friends - not even the one that made me mad - assume that anything said to ross gets said to me and vice versa. let me tell you it doesn't happen. she says she understands that....but she keeps doing it.

[spiralshell.livejournal.com]

i suppose in a weird way it can be considered kind of a pseudo-compliment -- that you and R are such good friends and partners, as well as spouses, that your communication is immediate, complete, and encompassing.
(I don't think that's very realistic though, not even for the closest of couples!)

[keisolo.livejournal.com]

Bleagh.

I hate that sort of scenario, too.

*empathizes*